You've spotted him, you like his look, and now you need to know how to attract a guy like him. It can be tough trying to muster up the courage to even say hi, nevertheless attempt to wrangle a first date from him. However, it can and will be done if you know the basic tried-and-true principles to snagging your dream guy. When you keep these simple but enormous secrets in mind, you will find yourself attracting a lot more than just your intended sweetheart.
Before you can attract a guy, you need to examine yourself first. No, this doesn't mean make sure you have the right outfit on, although that certainly helps. It doesn't refer to your makeup, hairstyle, or perfume either, even though those are all pieces of the puzzle. One of the most important qualities that men say, in survey after survey, attracts them the most is confidence. It's true! Believing that you are an awesome, amazing, beautiful person who is a total catch, but with a dash of modesty to tone it down, you will instantly become a male magnet without even realizing it.
With a smile and a glimmer in your eyes, you will hook your guy. Chat with him for a few minutes and he will certainly become smitten. But sometimes we become so nervous in these first few moments that you may find yourself unsure of what to talk about. Even if it takes commenting on his unique tie or the book he is holding in his hand, you need to find a way to start the conversation. Once the ball is rolling, if there is a spark, you will quickly see just how easy it is to chat. Take this time to learn about his job, family, and passions in life, and take interest in them.
However, you can't forget about the second half of this equation - you! Don't be too modest, if he is going to be worth your time, he should be asking some questions about your life as well. Don't downplay your achievements, however, or try to act like the person you think he is attracted to. He will be attracted to you for who you are, but only if you truly represent yourself that way. Men can tell when a woman is not being honest, being fake, or is too unsure of herself, and all three of these can be major turnoffs.
Finally, don't forget to have fun! Even if you are looking for the love of your life, you need to enjoy the process while you are in it. After you have taken note of these suggestions on how to attract a guy, don't dwell on them. Keep them in the back of your mind and have faith that you, as the hot commodity that you are, is more than enough to attract a slew of attractive, fun, smart, and loving guys. Now you just need to get out there and show the world what it is missing out on!
